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Passengers on a Bus or a Surrey
It's an absolute honor to walk with people who are taking back their power.

Mary Byler
Nov 5, 20243 min read


Gay Man Marries Straight Woman
It feels like we drain each other like a shorted out battery. Fantasizing about leaving is what gives strength for each day. I loath myself

Joe Kramer
Oct 12, 20246 min read


Christian Counseling & PSG
Survivor had attempted to set a boundary with an Amish church member that had been abusive to them or their loved ones

Mary Byler
Sep 27, 20244 min read


Liberation
This was an honor and tribute to the last twenty years since I escaped. A shout-out to all the folks I've met along the way.

Mary Byler
Feb 16, 20247 min read


Mennonite Church Support and Therapy
Then, both the ladies stopped talking, and both seemed to realize that they were saying opposite things

Lily Rebecca
Sep 14, 20234 min read


Plain Mennonite and Mental Health
Lily Rebecca an active Plain Mennonite woman who sought both professional and church support for mental health resources

Lily Rebecca
Aug 9, 20233 min read


The Aftermath
Lydia Miller is an Amish child sexual abuse survivor who has been walking the path of living with the aftermath for years.

Lydia Miller
Jul 1, 20231 min read


Old Colony Mennonite: A Survivor's Perspective
It is the result of not giving the young men the proper education. Fathers cannot educate their sons because they also have no concept

Aram Weibe
Nov 6, 20222 min read


Open Letter to Goshen College & Bluffton University
My name is Lauri Stoltzfus, and I recently saw a packet of materials sent to social work professors and college academic leaders

Lauri Stoltzfus
Oct 3, 20223 min read


The Truth of Being AFAB and Anabaptist
It doesn’t matter if the doctor said "it’s a girl" or "it’s a boy" neither is more valuable than the other. Both deserve equal rights.

Kris
Oct 1, 20224 min read


Amish Take Care of Their Own
" They often say if we were abused, we had a rebellious heart. Confessing will help us submit."
The Misfit Amish LLC
Jul 12, 20221 min read


The Little Girl
The Little Girl
22 January 2006
By Mary Byler
I can’t breathe, let me go, let me go…
I screamed…
I can’t see, let me go, let me go…
…but no

Mary Byler
May 19, 20222 min read


Finding your People
when we are open to connections, we can make connections with people we never dreamt of connecting with, in ways we never thought possible
The Misfit Amish LLC
May 18, 20223 min read


After
Sometimes, when we connect with fellow trauma survivors, we find moments of clarity and solidarity in discussing trauma experiences

Rue
Apr 2, 20222 min read


Amish Parental Love
“It’s often taught as a transactional type of love”.
What do I mean by this?
It’s conditional on the Amish person or child complying with
The Misfit Amish LLC
Mar 15, 20223 min read


A Christmas Market
There's a card with an inspirational story behind the earrings. I was speechless.

Mary Byler
Jan 24, 20222 min read


Have you struggled with holidays?
Within many people there's a lot of grief around holidays. Part of the reason for me personally (and I can't speak for others; there may be)

Mary Byler
Dec 17, 20212 min read


No Regrets
I learned how to bake all of these things and make all of these foods and we had this one cookbook when I was growing up and let me explain

Mary Byler
Dec 12, 20212 min read


Holiday Supper ?
Good morning folks, This was our dinner table last night. I wasn't sure I wanted to share this publicly, but I have decided that it's...

Mary Byler
Nov 24, 20211 min read


Forgive?
"When you wrong someone and you ask for forgiveness, it is up to that person to choose whether to forgive you or not. "

Mary Byler
Nov 24, 20211 min read
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